Question 1

Do you offer mutual massage? Can I touch the masseuse?

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This is a question we get asked many times – there are many reasons behind this question which is a completely normal response when considering having an intimate experience such as a tantric massage.

A quick answer is try to have an open mind and be guided through the tantric massage by the masseuse rather than go with pre conceived ideas of what you would normally want or do in a sensual situation.

We find that when clients can let go and be open to being guided by the expertise of the masseuse they have a much deeper, more profound tantric massage rather than trying to control or dictate the flow of the session.

We won’t shame or judge you for having certain desires or if you struggle to let go and relax. We always adapt to suit where you’re at and gently encourage and provide a unique and special experience where you have the opportunity to actually learn about your own sexual body. Surrendering, letting go and being open to be guided by the masseuse can allow a whole new dimension of understanding of your own body in a practical, spiritual and more holistic sense.

These life skills are rarely taught so we encourage those that want to learn more to really utilise our knowledge – we’ve seen and heard almost everything and can hold space for non judgemental listening if nothing else.

Practical tools like breathing techniques, mindfulness, sensation focus has really helped many of our clients overcome many issues such as premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, performance anxiety and explore their full orgasmic potential.

Identify your intention:Some examples of reasons as to why you want to touch during the tantric massage;– Other masseuses offering sessions where you massage anywhere on their body at the same time they massage you– Many people, particularly males find the idea of completely letting go and receiving unfamiliar. Men are usually initiating sex and sensual situations so the idea of surrendering into receiving pleasure passively can be challenging– Many clients feel they ‘can’t control’ themselves around a naked woman– Some feel guilty about only receiving and want to give back– Some just want to connectOur main answer first would be to check in with yourself as to what your intention really is– did you have an experience elsewhere that you want to replicate with another masseuse?– do you long to touch a naked woman’s body intimately or want to see a woman in pleasure?– do you consider yourself only a giver and not needing to receive?– do you only get aroused when you are giving or seeing a woman in pleasure?– do you think it’ll be weird only receiving touch and not giving pleasure?  Identify your intention:When you know the ‘why’ to your question that can help us facilitate and support your true desire. It is completely natural to want to connect and reach out – a tantric massage is an intimate and special experience. Being naked can mean being completely vulnerable to some people so light touching and reaching out can be reassuring and connecting. We invite you to be guided by the masseuse and check in with her first and have a chat before the massage session so she can understand your intentions and clearly state her boundaries. Communicating beforehand can help ease your own mind and clear your head of any questions you may have to help you relax into experiencing your own body. Many clients want to learn how to pleasure a woman or how to give a tantric massage – we offer this in a tuition session .We are happy to have a private confidential chat with you if you’re unsure about anything or have questions about a tantric massage session.

Question 2

How do I book a session?

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Bookings can be made via WhatsApp or email. We recommend booking in advance to secure your preferred time, as we cannot guarantee availability for late or last minute bookings.

Question 3

Will my visit and personal details remain private?

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Absolutely. We make every effort to ensure your visit is completely private, including avoiding contact with other clients. We do not retain clients’ phone numbers or email addresses, except in the case of no shows, whose details are kept solely to prevent future bookings.

Question 4

Techniques

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Our Tantric Massage uses a blend of full body sensual massage and principles from Taoist and Tantric teachings, working with an individual’s energy. This is a sensual process, which is helped by the person receiving the massage, being able to totally relax and let go. That is why we keep techniques to a minimum and allow the energy to do its work spontaneously. We do, however, teach you some simple breathing exercises, which help to relax body and mind and can be helpful for premature ejaculation and experiencing full body orgasms.

Question 5

Is this genuine or real tantra massage?

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Because of the proliferation of websites on Tantra and Tantric Massage nowadays, it can be confusing for someone wanting to try a Tantric Massage for the first time, to know where to go and  what to expect.

Our Tantric Massage encourages you to go within, so that you experience the stillness of mind which is your true nature, and the flow and vibration of your inner senses, which are far more subtle and infinitely more powerful than the outer senses. We often get asked whether our massage is a sensual massage or an erotic massage. Erotic teasing or titillation implies keeping the mind and imagination busy and desiring more and more variety to keep up the interest. We use the teasing aspect of eroticism to heighten the senses up to a certain point, but then the senses are drawn inwards, the internal energy rises up and the entire being is flooded with inner intimacy, energy and peace. The magic of tantra  is the experience of the inner stillness which lies within each one of us. This may sound simple, or even boring to some, but it is the hardest thing to experience. When the mind is cluttered with thoughts, one does not really experience what is happening within the body. As the mind slows down, our mental tendencies such as fear,anger and stress can be seen more clearly and can then be transcended.  In this way, we begin to understand ourselves more deeply and become more connected and whole within ourself. We encourage you to forget goals, targets and techniques, which dominate our modern lives and also your pre-conceptions of what you think you would like.This attitude will help to quieten the mind and you will fall naturally into a sort of state of meditation. This is the state in which something truly magical can take over within you. True sensuality lies within – and is not reached through outer titilattion.  You will have to experience this for yourself – it cannot really be described in words. This is the secret magic of tantric massage. Our attitude is the result of tantric and taoist initiations and teachings from respected Masters , as well as years of practice. A tantric practitioner should have developed a certain awareness and self-understanding and spent time either studying the teachings of the great masters, or spent time in their company. Sexual energy is the basic energy within us. It becomes counter-productive, when used wrongly – ie. in an angry person, the energy bursts out as anger, but when sexual energy is completely turned within, it eventually leads to the state of samadhi (enlightenment). The moment of orgasm is the closest most people come to communion with their inner being. We hope that our tantric massage will give you a glimpse into the true meaning of Tantra – a taste of your true inner nature – the experience of ecstasy in the body, compassion in the heart, emptiness of mind and blissfulness of spirit.

Question 6

What to expect

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The massage starts with a Swedish-style massage, to relax the muscles.If you enjoy deeper massage on the neck ,back and shoulders, this can be incorporated. Prostate massage/female ejaculation can also be included at your request. We also like to include a head/foot massage at the end, but again, this is up to the individual. You will be lying on a very comfortable, extra wide, massage table and you will be covered in warm oil.For the first half of the massage, you will be lying on your front. As the massage proceeds, you will be brought up to just before the point of no return and back several times, in order to experience being very turned on, energised, yet extremely relaxed, at the same time - without the feeling of urgency which is normally there. We will do some simple yogic breathing/basic meditation techniques which helps to quieten the mind and to spread energy throughout the body. This  is also a useful tool to help with issues of premature ejaculation for men and more of a full bodied sensation experience for women. Everyone responds in their own unique and individual way but most of our visitors experience some form of deep, inner orgasmic movement of energy, with waves of bliss spreading throughout the entire body. This is quite different to their usual experience, and it results in a heightened, powerful flow of energy, deep relaxation and clarity of mind as well as a feeling of lightness and centredness . You will feel re-energised and healed in mind and body - this ecstatic, blissful  feeling is a taste of what tantra is really about. Many visitors report that they have never felt this feeling before, in their whole life.

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