Posts Categorized: therapy

Tantric tuition with Celeste: Celeste’s customised self pleasure tantric tuition sessions can support people looking to explore their own sexuality at a deeper level to help them understand themselves and their partners. Learning about your own self touch and pleasure can be a really grounding way to being the journey of learning about how to pleasure and explore with others. Self pleasure top touch tips: Variation! Try different positions, environments, lubrications (organic oils, CBD lube). Create your own masturbation playlist – rhythm dictates your movements, choose slower more sensual music that inspires you to take your time rather than being super quick. If you’re dependent on porn or vibrators: use porn/toys to get you to a certain arousal level then look away/put the toy down and focus on using your hands and feeling different sensations before going back to porn/toys. Learn to massage yourself sensually! We also offer private tuition and you can get to know more by contacting us. What toys to use: There are loads on the market these days and lots of variation and high quality to suit all the different tastes, if you don’t know where to start try a good quality friendly sex shop and… Read more »

Pleasure in a pandemic Our last blog we highlighted Celestes tantric tuition sessions that can focus on learning about self pleasure. Regardless if you’re in a relationship or not – expanding your knowledge about your own sexuality and being inspired to be creative and curious about our own body is a life skill that here at Tantric Massage London we think should be valued. Tantric massage tuition sessions can be a great way to get support in your own self discovery journey. Celeste answers a few questions about self pleasure below:   How do you Masturbate: There are loads of different ways to masturbate! Usually it involves touching our genitals and erogenous zones in a pleasurable way – this can look very different on different people. The great thing about masturbation is that you can try ALL the things and ways that you find curious – its free and is the ultimate way of self loving. Ideally setting aside time that you won’t be interrupted and can be relaxed to explore your body and find out what you like.   How often should you masturbate?: Different people will have different levels of feeling inspired to masturbate – hormone changes, libido… Read more »

              Have any of you been watching Masters of Sex on tv – channel 4? 4 out of 12 episodes have already been shown. Plenty of time to describe some of the interesting work of this couple who are now known as two pioneering researchers of human sexuality. The series is based on a biography by Thomas Maier, and we have already been given a hint of the disturbed life of Masters’ early years when he was beaten by his father, with his mother just choosing to ignore what was going on. In the tv programme, Masters is played by Martin Sheen (photo above left) and the photo on the right is of the real Masters, whose repression shows in his eyes and face. And yet, this is the man who fought to break convention and chose to devote his life to chronicling and measuring the sexual habits of the men and women of his time. Masters,  and Virginia Johnson, who started off as his research assistant,  became partners and recruited volunteers to shed their inhibitions and masturbate or have sex in laboratory conditions. They later wrote and published ‘Human Sexual Response’ in 1966,… Read more »

Have you heard of Orgasmic Meditation or OM for short? It was mentioned to us by one of our female clients. Orgasmic Meditation is taught by an organisation based in the US but there seems to be a branch in London also. The whole idea of Orgasmic Meditation is to slow down, which is something we have written about in previous articles here According to their website, it is something you practice with a partner and it is equally powerful for both partners – the object of focus for both partners is the clitoris. They say that the practice strips away more and more layers of conditioning, fear and ..personality, so that the most tender parts of ourselves can touch the world. The website also contains intriguing articles on subjects like: ‘Why Men like Porn and Women like Vibrators’ which states that for both men and women there is a quality of hunger that is unmet, an itch that is not getting scratched. Orgasmic Meditation hold courses in the US and there are also meetings in London on Wednesday and Friday evenings. In the US, there are also advanced Orgasmic Meditation classes where ‘you will peak behind the curtain of… Read more »

  The clitoris is described as the only human body part that exists solely for pleasure. It is not merely a little ‘button’ hidden between a woman’s legs, but rather a large, mostly internal organ many people dont know about. New York artist, Sophia Wallace has created a multi-media art project entitled “Cliteracy”   According to Wallace, the clitoris was only scientifically discovered in 1998. Although the clitoris did appear in scientific literature in the mid-1800’s, it is only recently that an Australian urologist named Helen O’Connel published a paper describing its sheer scope and size. She specified that the unerect clitoris, most of which is subterranean, could be up to 9 cms long. In the image above, the internal clitoris is highlighted in yellow. Sophia Wallace notes how curious it is that the female form is idolized for its sexuality and is broadcast all around us in art and advertising, and yet the clitoris, which is the true female sexual organ, is virtually invisible. Not only that, but many women feel embarrassed to ask men to pleasure them, and feel that they are asking for a huge favour. ‘It is insane to me’ she says that this should still… Read more »

  Below is an excerpt from the above book, by Mieke and Stephan Wik It is one of the most practical books I have read on improving one’s sex life when involved in a relationship or marriage. We do not offer Tantric Sex at Tantric Massage London in Kensington, but we hope that our tantric massage sessions can give our clients the necessary tools for improving their relationship with a partner. “You can learn and practise Sacred Sex with people other than your partner. But ideally, this means that the other person is also an adept and that there is a very high level of trust and awareness involved…. in practice, however, most people find that it is very difficult to do this. Our society does not equip most of us with the emotional and intellectual frameworks needed to allow this sort of scenario to play out well in the long term……. Sacred Sex takes time and practice. It’s not really something that you can do well during a one night stand…….” We hope that by visiting us and  receiving a tantric massage which is offered with love and caring, and with your best interests at heart, can be a… Read more »