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FAQs – do you offer mutual massage? Can I touch the masseuse? This is a question we get asked many times – there are many reasons behind this question which is a completely normal response when considering having an intimate experience such as a tantric massage. In this blog we’ll explore the various reasons and responses that we talk about with our clients. A quick answer is try to have an open mind and be guided through the tantric massage by the masseuse rather than go with pre conceived ideas of what you would normally want or do in a sensual situation. We find that when clients can let go and be open to being guided by the expertise of the masseuse they have a much deeper, more profound tantric massage rather than trying to control or dictate the flow of the session. We won’t shame or judge you for having certain desires or if you struggle to let go and relax. We always adapt to suit where you’re at and gently encourage and provide a unique and special experience where you have the opportunity to actually learn about your own sexual body. Surrendering, letting go and being open… Read more »

Tantric tuition with Celeste: Celeste’s customised self pleasure tantric tuition sessions can support people looking to explore their own sexuality at a deeper level to help them understand themselves and their partners. Learning about your own self touch and pleasure can be a really grounding way to being the journey of learning about how to pleasure and explore with others. Self pleasure top touch tips: Variation! Try different positions, environments, lubrications (organic oils, CBD lube). Create your own masturbation playlist – rhythm dictates your movements, choose slower more sensual music that inspires you to take your time rather than being super quick. If you’re dependent on porn or vibrators: use porn/toys to get you to a certain arousal level then look away/put the toy down and focus on using your hands and feeling different sensations before going back to porn/toys. Learn to massage yourself sensually! We also offer private tuition and you can get to know more by contacting us. What toys to use: There are loads on the market these days and lots of variation and high quality to suit all the different tastes, if you don’t know where to start try a good quality friendly sex shop and… Read more »

Pleasure in a pandemic Our last blog we highlighted Celestes tantric tuition sessions that can focus on learning about self pleasure. Regardless if you’re in a relationship or not – expanding your knowledge about your own sexuality and being inspired to be creative and curious about our own body is a life skill that here at Tantric Massage London we think should be valued. Tantric massage tuition sessions can be a great way to get support in your own self discovery journey. Celeste answers a few questions about self pleasure below: How do you Masturbate: There are loads of different ways to masturbate! Usually it involves touching our genitals and erogenous zones in a pleasurable way – this can look very different on different people. The great thing about masturbation is that you can try ALL the things and ways that you find curious – its free and is the ultimate way of self loving. Ideally setting aside time that you won’t be interrupted and can be relaxed to explore your body and find out what you like. How often should you masturbate?: Different people will have different levels of feeling inspired to masturbate – hormone changes, libido… Read more »

Tantric tuition with Celeste – self pleasure In a time of lockdown isolation and less human interaction self pleasure can be a great way to relax, tune out from the barrage of the outside world and tune in to your inner world. The benefits of solo sex are widely known now as masturbation becomes less of a taboo subject – with more open conversations and representation in the media brings less shame and stigma. Self pleasure is an integral part of human sexuality yet in most cultures we aren’t taught how to do it let alone openly discuss it. The importance in learning about your own body and how it responds to different touches, strokes, textures, fantasies, positions, rhythms, environments can give you a deeper understanding of your own unique sensuality and sexuality rather than learning through only through porn or partners. Our highly experienced tantric masseuse Celeste does bespoke tantric tuition sessions which can focus on learning about your own self pleasure – if you’d like a private session with her to learn more about your own body or get support with any issues you may have please contact us Tantric tuition – customised to you: Celeste has… Read more »

TOUCH We hope you are staying as healthy and safe as possible, we will endeavour to keep you updated via this blog and the schedule. If you have any particular topics or questions about Tantric Massage and tuition that you’d like us to write about then please feel free to let us know by commenting below or emailing us via our contact page. During the pandemic: During this phase, many of us are isolated from numerous day to day types of contact that until now we may have thought nothing of – casual handshakes, hugs, fist bumps, pats on the back – even the accidental crashing into people on a manic London underground commute. Amongst all the zoom meetings and coping mechanisms that we’ve quickly adapted to none can be as hard to replicate or fulfil remotely and online than that of loving/nurturing touch – be it sensual, platonic or neutral. A type of ‘touch craving’ has set in without many realising the simple power of one of the most basic human needs. ‘Skin hunger is also a term being used when we go for long periods without touch as the illustrator Kristen Radtke explored in the New… Read more »

Since the last blog entry in April last year a lot has changed not only in the world as we know it but with how we operate our Tantric Massage London services as our regular clients will be aware. We’d like to update you on our current situation, location, masseuses and plans for when the Coronavirus lockdown measures ease. Firstly, as many of you know our beloved Eva has retired and handed over the running of the business to the capable and experienced hands of our new administrator Jessica. Jessica will now update this blog, website, and masseuse schedule, she’ll be taking bookings and happily answer your queries. She comes from a sex education background and has vast amounts of experience with Tantric Massage London, breathwork, and yoga so are a great fit for the team.Celeste will also be on hand from time to time to book appointments for you and answer any questions about her tuition sessions. We are still very much in touch with Eva and always pass on your well wishes. For some of you who have been longtime clients from the very beginning (since 1992!) this may seem like the end of an era and we… Read more »

*CONTACT DETAILS UPDATED FOR 1st Jan – 27th Jan* Please text message or whatsapp Jessica on 07708835756 OR 07935024041 for appointments stating: – your ideal time and date you would like and if you would like an incall to the Londonfields E8 studio or an outcall at your hotel.

Our tantra diary January-April 2019 is set out below. As I have mentioned before, I am taking a sort of semi-retirement, so I will not be available as much as in the past to answer the phone and respond to emails. However Jyoti and Veena will be here, and they will be handling the bookings as well as offering the massages. I decided that this would be preferable, rather than taking on someone new who would not be familiar with our way of working – just in order to handle appointments. So please be aware that your phone calls and emails may not be answered as promptly, and dare I say, as efficiently, as in the past. However, hopefully, this will not be a problem, as long as you can have some understanding and patience. The masseuses will only answer the phone in between appointments, when they are free, so it would make things easier if you can contact them more by email, and preferably with as much advance notice as possible. .

What is True Tantra? Here are some thoughts on this inspiring and beautiful subject. The male eternally searches for his female half, the “sakthi”, and the female searches for her masculine half, the “siva”, to complete the cosmic energy circle.. Some try to consummate it through “divine love”, some through “sacred sex”, some through “platonic companionship”- But always through an external relationship, an external partner- hoping it is the duty of “the other”- to give us pleasure, security, sense of belonging, or whatever it is we are continuously searching for.. Hence the anger, frustrations & accusations (and transient pleasure also) when this does not happen- in all these male-female relationships.. Until we internally realize the other half of our energy cycle, which we ourselves ultimately have to, for our inner fulfillment, this futile external search will go on, says Sri Tathata, quoting the sacred science of the tantra.. So in this sacred journey, internally surrender your ego- to your present partner, present relationship, present experience- But with full awareness, unconditional acceptance, total respect, and infinite love.. ..as a pathway to discover the absolute divine in us, and in each other.. Here is a story about Krsna and Radha, the eternal… Read more »

There will be fewer tantric massage appointments available in November and December. During this period, Eva will be away until December 8, so do please be prepared to wait a little longer for answers to your emails and requests for tantric massage appointments. Please read below: NOVEMBER AND DECEMBER We will be working 3 days per week: Tuesdays, Thursdays and Fridays. Veena will be away and will return in January 2019. River will be working on Thursdays with Jyoti offering our special offer 4 hand massage for £150 per hr. Jyoti will be available on her own on Tuesdays and Fridays. XMAS WEEK We will be closed on December 24,25,26. We will be open for 4-hand massage appointments on Thursday December 27 with Jyoti and River. We will be closed on Friday December 28, Monday December 31, Tuesday January 1 and Wednesday January 2. We will re-open on Thursday January 3 with Jyoti and Veena offering the 4-hand tantric massage special offer of £150 per hr. After that, in January, our schedule will be as follows: Monday: Veena Tuesday: Jyoti Wednesday: CLOSED Thursday: 4-hand massage with Veena and Jyoti Friday: Jyoti Thank you.

Tantra Misconceptions an extremely interesting and well witten article by David Frawley can be found on his website https://www.vedanet.com/tantra-and-its-misconceptions-reclaiming-the-essence-from-the-illusions/. For those of you interested in understanding what tantra really is as opposed to tantra misconceptions, I highly recommend reading it. It is very hot in London today, and I do not have the energy to write an article on the subject myself, but I will quote here some of the main paragraphs. The Allure of Tantra Perhaps nothing is more exotic, dramatic and sensational in India’s Yoga traditions than is the practice of Tantra. No other approach to Yoga has gained such a fascination for the modern mind and its seeking of the bizarre, the entertaining and the enigmatic. Tantra appears to offer both spiritual and worldly success to a superlative degree. It covers not only internal yogic experiences of chakras, lokas and deities, but also has many important healing practices for body and mind. Most notably, it offers special means of heightening sexual pleasure, making money, gaining recognition and defeating one’s enemies – with Tantric methods available for achieving all human desires. There is in Tantra something for everyone, especially those who may be… Read more »

Our tantra massage schedule for the next few months will be changing, so I am posting some details here for those of you who like to plan in advance. JULY River will be leaving us at the end of July. She will no longer be working on Wednesdays, so we will be closed on Wednesdays in July. River will be offering the four hand massage with Jyoti on Thursday July 19 and Thursday July 26. Celeste will be working on the days posted on our Schedule page ie on July 2 and July 30. We will remain closed on the Mondays when she is away AUGUST Jyoti will all be taking a badly-needed holiday for the whole month of August. Just as I had decided to take semi-retirement, I have received an unusually large amount of requests from masseuses interested in working here. Isn’t that always the way ! We will be taking on a lovely, talented and very experienced new masseuse called Veena very soon. She will be offering the four hand massage with Jyoti on Tuesday July 31…and we will be making it a Special Offer of £140 for one hour. She… Read more »

Have you seen ‘Wild Wild Country’ – the Netflix 6-part documentary? I strongly recommend that you watch it because it is fascinating entertainment. It tells the story of the community of followers of the controversial Indian guru, Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh, (later called Osho – he of the 99 Rolls Royces) who I have mentioned in several articles on this website, specifically here and here and here , because his followers were really the original creators of tantric massage. Rajneesh began giving talks on sex and spirituality in India in the 1960’s. Many young, educated and often affluent westerners were attracted to his teachings and he became well-known in the west in the 1970’s. By 1981, his followers had outgrown their ashram in Pune, India and had become very unpopular there. So they decided to set themselves up elsewhere and bought a stretch of approximately 64,000 acres of farmland – Big Muddy Ranch, in rural Oregon, USA – in a tiny town of less than 60 conservative retirees, called Antelope. The Directors of Wild Wild Country have managed to obtain 250+ hours of footage and extensive new interviews of both ex-Rajneeshees and the conservative Oregonians who lived… Read more »

Tales of tantra goddess energy ….and sacred prostitutes or priestesses are a popular subject of books and films nowadays. I remember visiting one of the first yoga centres in Switzerland,- in the 1970’s. It was run by a lady called Elizabeth Haich, and her Indian yogi companion Yesudian. Elizabeth Haich was a Hungarian mystic who was helped to escape Hungary just after World War II by Yesudian. She wrote a well-known book called ‘Initiation’ in which she recalls with lucid clarity, her past life experiences as a priestess in ancient Egypt: “‘The priestesses in the temple have different tasks corresponding to their different abilities………They teach young men to transmute their physical urge through the power of the spirit and to aim for a higher spiritual union….. they also teach young men who are on the point of marrying about this sacred power, so they can transmit this energy to their wives after marriage….” Some people might find this hard to believe – but tales abound of similar techniques being taught in ancient Greece in the temples of Venus – sacred prostitutes who also offered spiritual-sexual healing…. When soldiers returned from war, ill of heart from all that… Read more »

Tantric Massage and Integrity should go hand in hand. We have been getting booked up quite a bit in advance lately and clients have been asking why I do not take on some more masseuses. For some time now, I have decided to use only one massage room, so we are limited re. the amount of slots available every day. Also, clients who arrive early can now wait peacefully in our waiting room. I have not taken on any additional masseuses because it seems to be becoming harder and harder to find masseuses who have experience, training and the right personality , attitude and understanding. I have advertised but have met mainly young girls with no training who expect to be paid a lot of money, only because they are attractive. They say things like ‘sensual massage is easy’, and they think that experience is unnecessary and they somehow feel entitled to earn a lot, based mainly on their looks. Of course, there will always be a demand for young, sexy, pretty girls – and different clients have varying requirements. But I have always been particular about who I take on here. Of course a tantric masseuse should… Read more »

Xmas at Tantric Massage London in Kensington The month of December has already begun, so the Xmas season is upon us . Many of you will be going away on holiday and we may not see you again until the New Year begins. However for those of you who will be remaining in London, we hope that you will be able to visit us in a more leisurely way than usual during this Xmas period. We will be preparing our Xmas Chai Latte Special and hope that you will be able to sit in the waiting room for a few moments, either before or after your massage, and enjoy a cup of chai. Our chai latte special is made with spices, herbal tea and honey – so there is no black tea or sugar in it – for those of you who are concerned about health. We will also be burning candles with Xmas flavours of Orange and Spice, to add to the festive mood in a sensual way. We will be open on Friday December 22, and then closed for Xmas Day , Boxing Day and January 1. But we will be… Read more »

Why can’t men hold their sexual energy? is the title of an interesting article which recently appeared on a psychosexual website: http://psychosexualsomatics.com/cant-men-hold-sexual-energy/ It asks the question: “So do guys really just want to have quick sex and cum?……. Here’s the age old problem; women typically want longer sex sessions, with more of a build up of erotic energy, guys tend to want to move ahead to ‘the main event’ of penetration and ejaculate pretty much as soon as possible. Why? The interesting thing about sexual energy is that although most guys spend a huge amount of time thinking about sex, planning ways to get it, fantasising about what they’ll do once they get there, when they’re actually in a sexual situation they want to get rid of that sexual energy as fast as possible by ejaculating it out of them. Interesting conundrum, right? Why spend all that time wanting something, only to discharge it as soon as you get the chance?” This issue is pretty pertinent at the moment with the newspapers full of descriptions of the obnoxious and abusive behaviour of Hollywood producer Harvey Weinstein. He would do things like pressurize young women to watch him masturbate…. Read more »

The tantric massage scene in London has changed enormously over the past 20 years What has prompted me to write an article on this topic is that we have been looking for a new tantric masseuse to replace Lakshmi, doing the four-hand massage on Thursdays. I knew when Lakshmi first joined us that she would only be staying in London until September, so I started keeping an eye open early on. In the past, I have always had a large choice of talented and attractive masseuses who had written to me, asking if they could train and work with us. I very rarely needed to advertise. They would always enclose a cv and photo, as requested on our employment page, and the majority were interested in the subject of tantric massage, and in learning more. But the tantric massage scene in London has now changed. I have received a few email requests from very young girls with no massage experience, no cv, confidently saying that they could learn fast and expecting very high pay. When I did make appointments for some of them to come and meet me, most of them did not even bother to turn up… Read more »

Punting Forums or Sex Forums, are portrayed in Jane Champion’s new BBC drama called Top of the Lake – China Girl. Have you been watching it? I highly recommend it. Apparently, Jane Champion did a lot of research into brothels and the sex trade and she actually managed to get into a brothel, which is not an easy thing for a woman to do. I was struck also by her portrayal of a punting forum – a group of men sitting in a cafe, with their laptops open, discussing their experiences of various prostitutes they had been visiting in one particular brothel. As I mentioned in my earlier blog article on sensual massage forums, this bonding among men on punting forums, where they share information on the sensual/sexual services they have been receiving, came as a shock to me when I first found out about their existence. To my knowledge, this is the first time that punting forums have been portrayed so openly and honestly in a movie. The Guardian describes them as follows: ‘… and the ghastly porn-surfing bros who congregate at a cafe with their laptops, harassing the waitress and cackling over… Read more »

Tantra Holidays are important for our masseuses What I mean by tantra holidays, is that they need to take breaks every now and then, to restore their energy. We only have one masseuse working every day, except Thursday, which is when we have our special 4 hand massage offer. Most other agencies have many more masseuses on their books, so with them, you can probably easily make last minute bookings. We have been getting booked up well in advance and many of our clients need to plan ahead of time, especially those coming to London from other cities in England and from abroad. I have been asked quite a lot recently, why I don’t take on more tantric masseuses. But it is not easy to find the right ones. Also, I have always been very particular, and insist on selecting and training our tantric masseuses with a great deal of care. Since some holidays are coming up, I thought I would outline them now, in advance, to make it clearer for all clients re. who will be working on which days. Lakshmi will be away from July 14-31, so she will not be available during that period…. Read more »

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